For people who look like they have it all together.
Kelsey Torgerson
Anxiety Therapy for Teens in St. Louis: Relief for Perfectionism, Panic, and the Hidden Sadness
On the outside you look fine. On the inside you feel swallowed by pressure. If you stop, you worry the tears will not stop. You want a therapist who will not judge you, who will not tell your parents everything, who will help you feel what you feel, then put it away so you can get through the week.
Anxiety is loud. Sadness is quiet.
We will listen to both. When sadness gets words and a safe place to land, anxiety does not have to work so hard to hold everything down. Anxiety therapy for teens gives you privacy, steady support, and real tools that fit your life at school and at home.
Hi, I am Kelsey Torgerson Dunn, Licensed Therapist in St. Louis, Missouri
I help high achieving teens who look steady on the outside and overwhelmed on the inside. My style is warm, practical, and respectful. We slow things down enough to name what is happening in your body and your thoughts. We practice small skills that make a real difference in class, during tests, with friends, and at home. Parents, you get a partner who keeps you informed about themes and safety, while protecting your teen’s privacy.
If you or your teen look like you have it all together on the outside - but inside you’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or just plain exhausted - you’re not alone.
What Anxiety Therapy for Teens Looks Like
Relief and practice.
In session we make space for feelings and teach your nervous system how to settle. Out of session you try short, realistic strategies that fit your day.
We plan for the moments that spike anxiety, the test days, the group project, the social invite, the family argument. Then you report back so we can refine what works. Therapy becomes a weekly place to breathe, reset, and move forward.
Privacy for Teens, Partnership for Parents
Teens need privacy to open up. I share patterns, progress, and safety plans with parents. I protect session details unless a safety concern is present.
Parents receive guidance on how to support skills at home without pushing too hard. And if something is concerning, I will tell you clearly and quickly. The goal is a team approach that respects teen autonomy and keeps everyone safe.
Skills That Work At School And Home
Name and tolerate emotions so they feel manageable, not overwhelming
Use relaxation through grounding, paced breathing, and body based skills to ride out waves of panic
Practice flexible perfectionism to reduce all or nothing thinking
Build self talk that is kind and believable
Prepare for tests and social stressors with simple plans
Strengthen communication with parents, teachers, and friends
Reconnect with rest, joy, and self respect.
Teen Perfectionism AND Pressure
You can keep your high standards without the constant pressure to be perfect. We turn rigid rules into flexible goals. We notice the signals that say you need a break. We practice taking that break without spiraling. You learn how to switch from survival mode to steady mode, so the way you feel on the inside can finally match how you look on the outside.
What To Expect
First session. We get to know each other, set goals, and review confidentiality so everyone understands how we work together.
Weekly sessions. Some weeks are skill focused. Other weeks we sit with the quiet sadness under the anxiety so it does not run the show.
Parent check ins. Short updates keep parents in the loop about progress and themes. Teen consent guides the level of detail. Safety concerns are always shared.
Length of therapy. Many teens feel relief in the first few weeks as skills click. Deeper changes, like self compassion and flexible perfectionism, tend to build over a few months. We plan on starting with 12 weeks to get things on track, and then we can take it from there!
Ready For Your Teen To Breathe Again
If you are tired of white knuckling it through every week, anxiety therapy for teens in St. Louis can help. Reach out to schedule a consultation. Your teen deserves a steady place to talk honestly, learn tools that work, and feel more like themselves.
Session fees for Kelsey:
$320 per 45 minute session
$400 per 60 minute session
$480 per 75 minute session
Credentials:
Approved LCSW Licensure Supervisor - 2025
Fully Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) Missouri - 2014
MSW (Mental Health Concentration) at Washington University in St. Louis - 2012
BA Psychology with an emphasis in Developmental Psychology, BA English at The University of Iowa - 2010
Get started with a free consultation
We are happy to provide a free 15 minute phone screening to help you navigate this process. We can determine if therapy would be the best next step.